On Topic Discussion What do you think about bisexuals?

[mikemizanin729]

^^ Its to do with the personality of the person, not the gender. After reading his posts in that link along with the things he describes doing to certain male celebrities in the past I seriously doubt he's female.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

^^You have the right to be stupid, but don't think you're free from the consequence of your stupidity.

And the only thing that makes bi men and bi women different, besides the obvious, is the individual. Same for gay men and women. Same for transgender men and women. Same for straight men and women.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

also men ans women

_stamp_
*no match now*
_stamp_
*tinkyou*

"box it up"

ha

 

[mikemizanin729]

And the only thing that makes bi men and bi women different, besides the obvious, is the individual. Same for gay men and women. Same for transgender men and women. Same for straight men and women.

Exactly, which is why the OP needs to realize this or maybe the OP already knows.

 

[Kulindahr]

I don't believe Sokker is female as he claims.

Last paragraph: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...HAT-THE-HELL?p=9512147&viewfull=1#post9512147

We have a winner!

 

[Kulindahr]

What I think? I'm not sure if you're trolling?

I second this emotion.

 

[72-Jay]

I've never dated, but when it comes to relationships I believe in monogamous and long term - no cheating/open-relations/etc (and would expect all the same from someone)

I do consider myself romantically bi (closer to the gay end so I'm more attracted towards guys...but if the right guy cane along I would consider dating him, same thing if the right girl came along . but . if I was already in a relationship (on either side) the part I mentioned above about being monogamous ofcouse would apply to both same and opposite sex)
note that I said 'romantically bi' - meaning the love/closeness part of a relationship...
as for the sexual part - I believe I am something closer to asexual...
so maybe I don't count in this one

 

[cgymike]

Please don't move this, I want to discuss it here under Hot Topics. It's a subject a lot of people have an opinion on. It would be nice to have a discussion about it.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a bi guy, or are you right now? Is it true bisexuals are "greedy" and untrustworthy? Have you ever thought that he might leave you for a woman?

All of this crossed my mind while watching a gay couple where one is gay and one is bi. Like.. how do they even make it work? What if the bi guy suddenly craves you know..? I just don't get it. I'm sorry, I know I'm bisexual myself, but it's different with bi women. I can't really explain it, but it does seem like bi guys just don't want to committ, they love sleeping around and then there's the "no label" bs which is just a way for them to still use straight privilege. And even if they're in a relationship with a guy, it still seems like it's doomed because the bi guys always end up cheating, whether it's with a guy or (most often) a girl.

Sorry this got long. This is just my experience, and what I've read from people who have been through it. I just wanted to know what you think?

Why bring this old topic up again.

Bisexuals do not exist.

Period.

THAT was sorted long ago.

Now come along....

 

[blackbeltninja]

As I bi guy I would like to say I am pleasantly taken aback by most of the responses in this thread.

It seems like it wasn't too long ago that this sort of thinking in the OP was prevalent in here; perhaps it was just more vocal JUBbers now gone who agreed and who posted before.

Either way, I'm grateful for the sentiment of the replies.

-d-

 

[cgymike]

^Oh rubbish...your sentiment is sickening to say the least.

 

[Kahaih]

As I bi guy I would like to say I am pleasantly taken aback by most of the responses in this thread.

It seems like it wasn't too long ago that this sort of thinking in the OP was prevalent in here; perhaps it was just more vocal JUBbers now gone who agreed and who posted before.

Either way, I'm grateful for the sentiment of the replies.

-d-

Cheer down. They're just trying to get in your pants.

 

[blackbeltninja]

^I wish someone would. I'm over here.

-d-

 

[EJMichaels]

...Its to do with the personality of the person, not the gender...

...And the only thing that makes bi men and bi women different, besides the obvious, is the individual. Same for gay men and women. Same for transgender men and women. Same for straight men and women.

There is plenty of evidence that as a group, on average (not every individual), male and female sexuality is different. Therefore, this applies to bisexuals. It's not a matter of "better" or "worse". Are you all trying to say there are no gender differences? Acknowledging real group differences doesn't compromise individuality. This is true for non-sexual behaviors and personality too, based on the person's gender.

I could list some ways bisexuality tends to differ between men and women, but the way this thread is going, there's no point.

For the record, I'm a gay-oriented bisexual female.

 

[dpnice]

I could list some ways bisexuality tends to differ between men and women, but the way this thread is going, there's no point.

For the record, I'm a gay-oriented bisexual female.

As soon as I saw that the OP was female I thought we might get a different point of view; but she hasn't seen fit to return with her opinions which I find a shame.

I am glad EJ joined in as I feel that there must be a difference between male and female bi-sexuals and especially in their relationships.

 

[sokker]

As soon as I saw that the OP was female I thought we might get a different point of view; but she hasn't seen fit to return with her opinions which I find a shame.

I am glad EJ joined in as I feel that there must be a difference between male and female bi-sexuals and especially in their relationships.

What do you really want me to say? The few bisexual men I've come across have been promiscuous and yes, they've basically all cheated. But I know that doesn't mean they ALL do. BUT I do think bisexuals get a bad rep for a reason. I do think there's some truth to it. However, there's probably many monogamous bisexual men out there too.

I still do not get how it can work in the long run though. Lets say a bisexual guy (who is actually quite good looking) is dating a guy, and has been dating this guy for a while. Maybe they love each other, maybe they believe they're soulmates. BUT what happens the day he craves p*ssy? Like.. what if the craving gets too much and he cheats on his boyfriend with a woman? That's what I can't quite wrap my head around. I'm sorry if this sounds mean, I'm just being honest. Like.. if you're gay and dating a bi guy, him cheating on you with a guy would be awful (don't get me wrong), but at least you sorta understand. But what if he cheats with a woman.. like you can't even compete with that. Aren't you constantly worried that he might get too close to a woman and hook up with her? What about him flirting with other women?

Ok, this got long and it's sort of just a rant. I'm not sure if I answered what you asked me. And before you all judge me and bash me. I know I don't have PC answers, and I know it might sound bigoted to some. I'm just trying to be honest here. I do think some bisexual men who are promiscuous and sleep around ruin the rep for all bisexuals. I think it would be nice to have some bisexual role models who are in a monogamous gay relationship. Maybe that's the problem.. like we only hear about the bad side of bisexuality, not the good side. Idk.. I'm ranting again, I'm sorry. I'll stop now

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

You keep saying "what happens if a bi guy cheats on a man with a woman" without even acknowledging that a bi woman can cheat on a girl with a guy with the exact same ease, should they see fit to do so. You seem to crucify bi men for doing what ALL bi people are capable of doing. Now you're amending it to say that they may be some monogamous bi men, but it's a backhand - you think bi men are predisposed to cheat just because they may get "bored" and want what the other partner is missing(a pussy or a dick), and that's sickening.

And, as for EJ, who is a poster I do respect, how is stating that an individuals' choice wavers with the individual and that is the sole difference, wrong, simply because one is a man and one is a woman?

 

[borg69unimatrix]

I still do not get how it can work in the long run though. Lets say a bisexual guy (who is actually quite good looking) is dating a guy, and has been dating this guy for a while. Maybe they love each other, maybe they believe they're soulmates. BUT what happens the day he craves p*ssy? Like.. what if the craving gets too much and he cheats on his boyfriend with a woman? That's what I can't quite wrap my head around. I'm sorry if this sounds mean, I'm just being honest. Like.. if you're gay and dating a bi guy, him cheating on you with a guy would be awful (don't get me wrong), but at least you sorta understand.

This is just ignorant. Whether you're straight, gay, bi, ... other... There's temptation around every corner no matter whom/what you're attracted to. Monogamy, commitment, and being faithful is a CHOICE - regardless of anything else you might find attractive. Bi-sex people aren't any more likely to cheat than anyone else.

If you want to talk morals and honesty, why is it that now you're a bi-female, and in the other thread I linked to you're a gay guy ?

 

[Gentleheart]

bisexuals are FINE.

PEOPLE WHO ARE CONFUSED/CONFLICTED ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL ORIENTATION (who often call themselves "bisexual") are a waste of fucking time, and I think they are responsible for the negative opinions a lot of people seem to have for bisexuals.

There is a difference.

I advise staying away from the latter (especially for relationships) for the sake of your sanity.

 

[Kahaih]

This is just ignorant. Whether you're straight, gay, bi, ... other... There's temptation around every corner no matter whom/what you're attracted to. Monogamy, commitment, and being faithful is a CHOICE - regardless of anything else you might find attractive. Bi-sex people aren't any more likely to cheat than anyone else.

If you want to talk morals and honesty, why is it that now you're a bi-female, and in the other thread I linked to you're a gay guy ?

Except that females make up 50% of the general population, and gays less than 10%.

Also, there is an advantage for women to flirt/whore openly almost anywhere/everywhere.

 

[Kahaih]

This is just ignorant. Whether you're straight, gay, bi, ... other... There's temptation around every corner no matter whom/what you're attracted to. Monogamy, commitment, and being faithful is a CHOICE - regardless of anything else you might find attractive. Bi-sex people aren't any more likely to cheat than anyone else.

If you want to talk morals and honesty, why is it that now you're a bi-female, and in the other thread I linked to you're a gay guy ?

Except that females make up 50% of the general population, and gays less than 10%.

Also, there is an advantage for women to flirt/whore openly almost anywhere/everywhere - and often peer pressure for the bi boy to respond to their advances.