On Topic Discussion What do you think about bisexuals?

[Kahaih]

Today would have been young Thomas and my 3rd anniversary together had we not broken up last year, on 8 January 2013 after 17 months together. /rainman

So... yeah. My user status says Single for a reason.

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Does your government recognize same-sex marriage?

 

[Kahaih]

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One last thing.. with it being different for women I mean that women don't usually cheat, at least not as much as guys, women seem to WANT to be in a committed relationship.. whether they're lesbian, bi or heterosexual.

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I think it's well accepted (everywhere) that women are more inclined to be 'nesters'.

 

[otters]

Errrm, how do you define «monogamous» in this context?

For example, one could say: a bisexual guy who is married to a woman and has never sex with another woman, but with one guy or many guys, IS «monogamous» regarding his marriage.

I'm sure there's some awesome, monogamous bisexual men out there.

 

[sokker]

This is just ignorant. Whether you're straight, gay, bi, ... other... There's temptation around every corner no matter whom/what you're attracted to. Monogamy, commitment, and being faithful is a CHOICE - regardless of anything else you might find attractive. Bi-sex people aren't any more likely to cheat than anyone else.

If you want to talk morals and honesty, why is it that now you're a bi-female, and in the other thread I linked to you're a gay guy ?

WTF? Yes, I am a bisexual female, it's what it says in my profile. That's the truth. I just do not like to point it out very often since I'm on a website for bi and gay MEN. Hence I feel like I'm intruding sometimes. That's why I don't like to point it out, but it says bi female on all my posts, so I don't really see why you're hating on me all of a sudden. I'm a female, and yes, I am bi, but believe whatever you want.

 

[sokker]

Except that females make up 50% of the general population, and gays less than 10%.

Also, there is an advantage for women to flirt/whore openly almost anywhere/everywhere.

YES. Thank you! You understand what I'm trying to say. There's no denying bi men have more temptation.. from both girls and guys. Like you say yourself, 50 % of the population is female, only 10 % is gay. So it would be very easy for a bi guy to find a girl to hook up with. I also think bi guys in gay relationships tend to stray a lot and cheat just because they crave something else.

 

[otters]

I also think bi guys in gay relationships tend to stray a lot and cheat just because they crave something else.

IMHO, the term «stray» is … a bit offensive. Bisexual men aren't dogs, are they?, in your opinion?

 

[sokker]

I think it's more of a man bashing thread TBH.

WTF?! Umm.. no. I don't have a problem with men.. hetero, bi or gay. Speaking just about bi/gay men, since this is a website for them, I just don't quite understand bi guys. I'm trying to, it's just.. it's difficult.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

So we've got right back to your sickening thought that bi men are predisposed to cheat, and bi women somehow aren't.

Great. I'ma continue watching The Simpsons marathon.

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

What do you really want me to say?

I still do not get how it can work in the long run though. Lets say a bisexual guy (who is actually quite good looking) is dating a guy, and has been dating this guy for a while. Maybe they love each other, maybe they believe they're soulmates. BUT what happens the day he craves p*ssy? Like.. what if the craving gets too much and he cheats on his boyfriend with a woman? That's what I can't quite wrap my head around.

I think this speaks volumes about your own character, and its pretty ridiculous. Whatever you are male or female you need a Bio~hazard sticker tatoo'd on your forehead to warn people.

Some people are right handed, some are left, and some are ambidextrous. Those are the lucky ones but a right handed person is no less equal to a left.

 

[mikemizanin729]

WTF?! Umm.. no. I don't have a problem with men.. hetero, bi or gay. Speaking just about bi/gay men, since this is a website for them, I just don't quite understand bi guys. I'm trying to, it's just.. it's difficult.

You don't bother replying to the ones you Insulted. Not a sorry, nothing.

I think you're just ignorant and pretty stupid.

 

[palbert]

I think the faux bisexuals clutter up Amateur Showcase and Coming Out & Relationships. Same with the "straight/curious." They're no more bi than I am.

What would you do with me - then gone.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

I think the faux bisexuals clutter up Amateur Showcase and Coming Out & Relationships. Same with the "straight/curious." They're no more bi than I am.

What would you do with me - then gone.

In that case, they see the attention most of the people give the "straight/curious/bi" headless torsos as opposed to the gay headless torsos, think it's a good idea, post a picture(that may or may not be there own), get their fill of attention, and leave them wanting more. So they checked off the first rule of show business.

 

[dereperez]

THANK YOU! This is what I mean. I'm sure there's some awesome, monogamous bisexual men out there. However, and I'm talking about MY experience here, with what I have come across.. for me I haven't. I constantly see bisexual guys who sleep around, who cheat, who never seem to be in a commited relationship.. and then there's those who "refuse to put a label on themselves" so they don't have to be "one of the queers". It's insulting, disgusting and obnoxious. Not to mention these bi men get the advantage of heterosexual privilege.It's unfair and not right.

As I said.. it's definitely unfair that some bisexual guys who like to sleep around bring down the reputation of all bisexual men. Like I said.. I'm sure some of them can be in a commited relationship. But I still think the "slutty bi guys" stereotype exists for a reason. I do think there's some truth to it. And yes.. I still don't get what happens if the bi guy suddenly one day gets sick of penis and wants p*ssy instead. I'd feel so bad on behalf of the gay guy in that relationship.. because that guy can't compete with a woman. It's like that move Free Fall, only in reverse.. she found out her husband was gay and said how could she ever compete with that? It's the same for bi men. But ok.. I'm rambling here.

One last thing.. with it being different for women I mean that women don't usually cheat, at least not as much as guys, women seem to WANT to be in a committed relationship.. whether they're lesbian, bi or heterosexual. It just seems like so many bi guys want it all.. and that's where I find an issue.

Idk.. I'm not sure if this makes sense, and I'm sure I will piss off a lot of people. I'm just telling you guys how I feel.

What heterosexual privilege? Doesn't seem like it at all in this thread. Even though straight guys have tendencies to cheat just as much as bi guys (the fact due to us being "men", as some of your cohorts like to point out, as well as you yourself)...you still want to point out bi guys as mainly cheaters that can't settle. You're focusing on the bi guys, yet the straight guys don't get commented. I don't see any "heterosexual privilege" here at all. You don't see the irony here?

 

[bankside]

Errrm, how do you define «monogamous» in this context?

For example, one could say: a bisexual guy who is married to a woman and has never sex with another woman, but with one guy or many guys, IS «monogamous» regarding his marriage.

One could say that but it makes no sense. The guy in that situation is either in a really cool open relationship with his wife's consent (and enthusiasm we hope). Or he is a cheating scumbag. Either way he is not monogamous.

 

[luckynumbah7]

WTF?! Umm.. no. I don't have a problem with men.. hetero, bi or gay. Speaking just about bi/gay men, since this is a website for them, I just don't quite understand bi guys. I'm trying to, it's just.. it's difficult.

You either have a problem with men, you're trolling, or both. Bi men aren't more likely to cheat than bi women - women just keep quieter about it, for a multitude of reasons. I'd list some of them but hey, you're paying fuck-all attention anyway, wasting both your time and ours.

Drop the Holier Than Thou bullshit; Life is more honest that way.

 

[Gentleheart]

LOL.

Guys, let's cut the bullshit, okay?

I don't claim to be the brightest bulb in the box, but I know my shit when it comes to this topic. This stuff "writes" itself.

Some of you are welcome to continue trying to refute or rebut my post(s), but I stand by what I say. And you're only going to end up providing SUPPORT to what I have said in the first place.

But by all means, keep going.

Does 'young Thomas' know that with one phone call he's yesterdays trash?

I find it odd that you can put those two lines in the same post, and not see that your story actually supports the line you highlighted, the line you 'take issue with', in/from Gentleheart's post # 71.

Honestly, blackbeltninja, the way your story reads, it seems that you are just settling for 'young Thomas'.

Yep. You can't make this stuff up.

BBN...I love you, sweets. But you did kinda cosign what I said in the first place. I'm sure you mean well, but if I were in a relationship with you...I would be "worried". I wish you and your guy well though.

 

[otters]

sokker: Since you state that you're a bisexual (cisgender I guess) female person, I admit my great confusion how extremely weird your perception of (cisgender) male bisexuality is.

Simple facts are:

Not everyone, who is a cisgender homosexual person, has romantic feelings towards persons of the own gender; some have romantic feelings towards the opposite gender, or towards transgender persons, and, yes!, some have no romantic feelings at all.

Some bisexual cisgender men are loving husbands of cisgender women, but probably sometimes their sexual drive is focused on one particular guy (who is their «fuck buddy» or «friend with benefits»).

Or e.g.: Some bisexual cisgender men have a strong sexual attraction focused on many women, but perhaps their romantic feelings belong just one particular guy.

And so on and so on

One could say that but it makes no sense. The guy in that situation is either in a really cool open relationship with his wife's consent (and enthusiasm we hope). Or he is a cheating scumbag. Either way he is not monogamous.

O.K., bankside, can't argue with that & with you, since a) I'm glad to belong to the first group you mentioned and b) you're a JD/JSD, aren't you? ^^

 

[Gentleheart]

Today would have been young Thomas and my 3rd anniversary together had we not broken up last year, on 8 January 2013 after 17 months together. /rainman

So... yeah. My user status says Single for a reason.

wait...nevermind to that last part of my previous post.

 

[sokker]

The topic was bisexual men (or at least that's what I hoped it would be). My sexuality is irrelevant. I have no idea what it means to be a bisexual male, or to be a bisexual male and to be in a relationship with another guy. That was the topic for this thread. As I have pointed out earlier, female and male sexuality is different, therefore it's hard to compare female bisexuality to male bisexuality. I don't really think it's very relevant for this thread either.

sokker: Since you state that you're a bisexual (cisgender I guess) female person, I admit my great confusion how extremely weird your perception of (cisgender) male bisexuality is.

Simple facts are:

Not everyone, who is a cisgender homosexual person, has romantic feelings towards persons of the own gender; some have romantic feelings towards the opposite gender, or towards transgender persons, and, yes!, some have no romantic feelings at all.

Some bisexual cisgender men are loving husbands of cisgender women, but probably sometimes their sexual drive is focused on one particular guy (who is their «fuck buddy» or «friend with benefits»).

Or e.g.: Some bisexual cisgender men have a strong sexual attraction focused on many women, but perhaps their romantic feelings belong just one particular guy.

And so on and so on



O.K., bankside, can't argue with that & with you, since a) I'm glad to belong to the first group you mentioned and b) you're a JD/JSD, aren't you? ^^

 

[otters]

sokker, before criticising me it would be REALLY polite if you'd first read what I've written ON TOPIC:

Some bisexual cisgender men are loving husbands of cisgender women, but probably sometimes their sexual drive is focused on one particular guy (who is their «fuck buddy» or «friend with benefits»).

Or e.g.: Some bisexual cisgender men have a strong sexual attraction focused on many women, but perhaps their romantic feelings belong just one particular guy.

And so on and so on

The topic was bisexual men (or at least that's what I hoped it would be). My sexuality is irrelevant. I have no idea what it means to be a bisexual male, or to be a bisexual male and to be in a relationship with another guy. That was the topic for this thread. As I have pointed out earlier, female and male sexuality is different, therefore it's hard to compare female bisexuality to male bisexuality. I don't really think it's very relevant for this thread either.