You have to have female two-spirit energy or the gay thing makes no sense and just doesn't work. Sorry! That's just all there is to it. And it's not 'offensive' to be called more of a woman than straight men. You're a man too, just never as purely manly as straight men. *sigh*
... Ah, now I remember you. Making strange assertions and claiming fact without any actual fact to back you up. Yeah going to continue not taking you seriously.
You haven't said anything about my point that most guys here are exaggerating my description of gay men beyond recognition. I've never called all gay men divas, for example.
If a single person gets the wrong idea about your post you can put it down to reading comprehension, however if several people aren't getting your point then maybe its a problem with the signal NOT the reception.
really. In real life, I have lots of gay friends who mock their own feminine side in a self-deprecating way.
But god forbid a JUBber ever admit that.
Talk about a complete lack of self acceptance.
Saying you're "moist" is very funny if said by a gay guy in a self-mocking way.
Saying you're moist is a face palm if you think it's masculine in any way. Straight guys talk about "getting hard" "getting wood" "shooting loads".
If you think your straight friends are talking about getting moist, I have some swamp land in Florida to sell you.
So JUBbers don't mock their feminine side in a self-deprecating way, however when someone does make a joke about it you have a go at them? I don't udnerstand. Isn't that what you want people to do? Make jokes that people would consider feminine? However I'm going to bring up the point that using the word 'moist' doesn't denote masculine or feminine, nor sexuality. It is a word used for a light hearted joke.
You also seem to have a very stereotypical view of a straight guy. This is priobably due to you living your life in the closet for so long, you've had this perfect ideal fo a straight man in your head to attain so you too can pass off as guy that you've completely blinded yourself to the diversity of masculinity. Yes there are people who think that you can only truely be 'masculine' by being what you've got in your head, but thats a certain group of people.
Other cultures, societies or even people who live in the street over from you can have a completely different definition of masculinity. Masculinity and Feminiity are social constructs that are not ridgid and set in stone, the traits you have said are indicitive of masculinity and homosexuality are flimsy. In different social circles these criteria for manhood wont stand, so you can't really force your ideals on other people, what you think of as feminine another, perfectly straight male, will have been brought up with it being completely fine for a straight, masculine male, to participate in.
You can only judge people within your own social circle, or culture, with this criteria, not the world at large.
I hope you come to the same acceptance some day, rather than remaining in denial.
And then we come to whats really getting up peoples craw. You telling them who they are and how to live there lives. Telling people that they have effeminate traits, telling them that they ride motor bikes to hide their feminine side and telling them that if they don't agree with you they're in denial. Shouldn't have to say this but; people don't like strangers telling them who they are. fine, you can make a judement, but when someone corrects you its very rude and annoying for you to then turn around and say "Oh no, your wrong, I'm right." Thats what people seem to be hearing from you, and I'm sure you can see how that can rile people up.
