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Straight Lad with a Problem

AlmostFamous said:
I'm pretty sure he can remember tbh, I know him well enough to know when he's lying now. He's such a confusing person lol.

he would never commit to me as he claims he's not gay and is adament about that.
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Then almost, imo, this "his drunk behavior" must stop some time soon.

I know how you feel. Ive been there... I know how good it feels these drunk nights but is temporary. If he claims he is not gay, then his behavior (touching, grabbing, flirting etc) is not acceptable mate. And only you can stop it. Can you be friends without him drinking and flirting? Also do it for him, because he may turn himself to alcoholic for some flirting..., if yes then his case is not simple....

catch up mate
;)
 
Species 8472 said:
Ah Durham... now THAT was MY uni town... good memories there. :gogirl:
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Durham's a quality city :D

I've got a date for tonight :eek: well not a date really, one of my housemates friends is bi and wanted to ask me out. So he's tagging along with us when were going out into town tonight. I've only talked to him once before.
 
That is AWESOME! Sincerely hope it all goes Well!! ..|

Naturally, "We" are expecting updates!! (group)

And, of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Kyanimal said:
That is AWESOME! Sincerely hope it all goes Well!! ..|

Naturally, "We" are expecting updates!! (group)

And, of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
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It went fine, we were all in a group but talked a little bit during the night and are going to go out some time nect week I think. Really excited :D
 
im very happy for ya mate. time to adjust the people to a wee amount, about you and him...
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We haven't been out anywhere together just yet however I was out on the club scene with my mates last night and we bumped into each other and ended up getting a pizza and eating it back at his. Nowt happened other than talking, we talked all night about everything lol. It just feels good talking to him and we have so much in common. We stayed up most the night and fell asleep on the sofa.

On another point James has been acting the twat the last few days, possibly because of me finally getting a possible relationship. For example he kept calling Martin queer when we were out last week. He's a complicated boy lol.
 
Just have to say that I'm happy that James found "Us", and pointed You in our direction! Seems as though things are going pretty well!! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
AlmostFamous said:
On another point James has been acting the twat the last few days, possibly because of me finally getting a possible relationship. For example he kept calling Martin queer when we were out last week. He's a complicated boy lol.
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no, he is not complicated he's just a jealous lad... Perhaps he is calling you queer behind your back too...

BTW you did great these weeks mate. It looks that -yes- you get towards a relationship. GOOD LUCK then. And keep us update
;) ..|
 
Tell me if James starts to say "when did you become so gay, mate? I just want us to hang out again like we used to..just us lads."

Then you can answer him :"____(insert bf's name) is a lad too."

heheh. Sounds familiar? It's Craig and JP of Hollyoaks dialogues. You know how it ends up, right?
 
Hi guys :wave:

Things have been going quite well with Martin. My brother came up yesterday on what I suspect is a spying mission lol, he'll be here till Friday. After he found out I was gay he hardlies has spoken to me until the weekend when he asked if he could come up (he was supposed to come visit earlier but cancelled after he found out). He was the one who told my parents bout the facebook message so don't think I can tell him that I am definately gay and it's not a phase. Also haven't seen Martin since he's arrived which is annoying.

One of my friends has offered to pretend to be my girlfriend whilst he's up lol, but I think that's a bit too far ;).

It's a shame because me and my bro were so close and talked together about everything, but I feel betrayed by what he did and it just feels awkward between us at the min.:(
 
^ What?? No. I hope you're joking.

Anyway, AlmostFamous, just ignore your brother. Let him have his time to adjust to this "new" info about you. You don't owe him any explanations. If he wants to talk about it, let him approach you, if he doesn't then is't not necessary for you to do anything; you're not the one with the problem, he's the one having a hard time dealing with the fact that you're gay, so let him.
 
I hope you "straighten" up everything before your brother's visit (lol). While I suspect you may be right about it being a spying mission, keep an open mind. He may be trying to come to terms with everything. Act like you normally would around him. Hopefully he will see that you are still the same person.
 
AlmostFamous said:
It's a shame because me and my bro were so close and talked together about everything, but I feel betrayed by what he did and it just feels awkward between us at the min.:(
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If you two are close then maybe you should have a talk with him and tell him how you feel about what he did, and explain your situation to him. Just a thought, and welcome to JUB!!
 
He's just gone home today. Well he was up here to have a spy. Yesterday he told me that mam had asked him to come and check up on me, he also said that he was upset that I had never told him before and he thought we were supposed to be brothers. It was a long conversation, anyhow I told him that I felt betrayed when he told me mam, and he said he felt the same when he found out via facebook rather than me telling him. I explained why and that I was never certain, I wasn't sure if I could trust him to keep quiet from mam and dad. We've ironed a lot of things out, I came out properly to him and told him about Martin and stuff. He's promised to keep quiet, he even told me that if he does tell I can tell them his big secret lol.

So good stuff. And aye James is still acting like a bit of a twat, sulking all the time but I'm just ignoring him atm.
 
Great update! I'm glad you have worked things out with your brother. I can understand him being hurt to find out through Facebook, but I think he reaction to your parents was over the top. In any case, you guys have worked that out. Glad to hear things are still going well with Martin. Sorry things are still not right with James. Hopefully things work out soon.
 
Hi Amost! :wave: Glad to see you posting again. Sounds to me like you have a very loving family and a tight bro. Yea, it will take everyone time to adjust. Maybe a year or more I guess, to fully accept you for who you are. The same son and brother they always new. I am curios Almost. Haze the response of the people posting here been of help to you? It takes time and courage. I am happy for you, Almost. Fond regards
 
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